Showing posts with label wedding traditions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label wedding traditions. Show all posts

Monday, March 1, 2010

What Do Aprons and Hog Troughs Have to do With Weddings?

From Erik Michaels and June Hoffman of Megasound

Have you ever heard of the "Apron Dance" or the "Hog Trough Dance" at Weddings?


The Dollar Dance: Some traditions at weddings evolved to help with more modern issues. As we mentioned in our post about the honeymoon, when honeymoons originated, they had a different meaning and lasted a bit longer (typically a month) than today's honeymoons. As honeymoons evolved into more expensive "vacations", a new way to help the bride and groom pay for their honeymoon also evolved. The dollar dance is also called the "money dance" or "apron dance" and originated in Poland around 1900. It began in immigrant neighborhoods and was started to help brides and grooms with the costs of either their honeymoon or setting up their new life together.

Originally, the Best Man would begin dancing at the reception with the Bride and pinning money onto her dress or putting it into a purse or an apron which she wears over her dress specifically for this event (which is where the namesake came from). Nowadays, the Groom is also a part of the dance and rather than just men dancing with the Bride and women dancing with the Groom, more often than not; there are no particular rules. Even children join in for these modern festivities. Some Fort Wayne couples have even made the dollar dance into a challenge (to see who can collect more money) during the reception.

The Hog Trough Dance: Another interesting dance at receptions is called the "hog trough" dance. This tradition is much lesser known than the dollar dance, but is often done around the same time frame (in the reception) as the dollar dance. The “tradition” goes as follows: when a younger sibling gets married before an older sibling; the older sibling is supposed to get in the hog trough and dance. This is done to bless the younger sibling's wedding, as it was once believed to be bad luck for a younger sibling to marry before an older sibling.

While doing a bit of research, references were made to this tradition originating in Germany and being mainly a rural tradition. Some research turned up articles referring to this custom as a northern Baltic tradition, but there is a surprisingly small amount of information available today on this subject. Many of the previous meanings have been forgotten and today we simply enjoy the humor and camaraderie of the “hog trough” dance.

Regardless of what traditions you would like to make a part of YOUR wedding reception, rest assured that Megasound will work with you to customize your wedding just the way you want it! Call us TODAY to schedule your FREE consultation!

Tuesday, February 23, 2010

What is the Significance of the White Aisle Runner?

From June Hoffman and Erik Michaels of Megasound

At a ceremony, the white aisle runner has Biblical references as part of the blood covenant that is represented in a marriage. The “white” aisle runner is symbolic of the holy ground where two lives are united by God as one. White is also a symbol of purity and innocence.

A more practical purpose for the white aisle runner at the church is to protect the bottom portion of the bride’s wedding dress. This is especially helpful for outdoor weddings.

Today, many couples opt for a customized aisle runner that they can incorporate into their home after the ceremony. Many couples are still happy with a basic white aisle runner to keep with tradition.

At Megasound, our Officiants run your wedding rehearsal for you and have helpful tips and tricks to ensure a safe walk down the aisle. Find out how you can benefit from pre-planning at your wedding by calling 260.484.2460.

Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Why All the Luck?

From Erik Michaels and June Hoffman of Megasound

Something Old, Something New,
Something Borrowed, Something Blue,
and a Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe.

This good luck rhyme dates back to Victorian times. Many brides to this day attempt to arrange their attire to fit this saying and it is the most symbolic of all and the meaning of the original custom is the same as it is today.

"Something Old" represents the bride's family and her past. Many brides choose to wear a piece of family jewelry or a mother's or grandmother's wedding gown or handkerchief.

"Something New" represents good fortune and success and a bride's hopes for a bright future in her new life. The wedding gown is often chosen as the new item.

"Something Borrowed" is to remind the bride that friends and family will be there for her when help is needed. The borrowed item is supposed to come from a happily married woman, thereby lending the bride some of her own marital bliss to carry into the new union.

"Something Blue" is the symbol of faithfulness and loyalty. Occasionally the garter will be blue for this symbol. Brides of ancient Israel wore blue ribbons on the border of their wedding clothes or in their hair to denote love, modesty, and fidelity. Blue also signifies the purity of the Virgin Mary and is the most popular of all colors.

"A Silver Sixpence in Her Shoe" is to wish the bride wealth. Some brides still place a penny in their shoe during their marriage ceremony.

Contact Megasound today to schedule a personalized consultation to find out how we help our brides and grooms incorporate traditions into their weddings.