Showing posts with label reception traditions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reception traditions. Show all posts

Friday, March 12, 2010

What is the Significance of a "Grand Entrance" at a Reception?

From June Hoffman and Erik Michaels of Megasound


The planning and the stress lead to the alter. The nerves and the anxiousness dissolve once the Officiant pronounces the happy couple man and wife. Then it is time to celebrate the new union at the reception.



The reception is the first actual public appearance for the bride and groom as a newly married couple. The grand introduction should not be taken lightly as this is a symbol of the next stage of life for a couple and the official announcement to a couple’s closest friends and family members.


The grand introduction sets the tone for the upcoming celebration. Check out our recent list of “18 Fun Reception Introduction Songs” and see for yourself how songs reflect a couple's tastes and styles.

Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Is it a Requirement to Dance with Parents at the Wedding Reception?

From June Hoffman and Erik Michaels of Megasound

A “Parents Dance” is one of the traditional dances that many couples include in their wedding. A daughter dancing with her father at weddings dates back some time. In some areas, this is a symbol of a father turning the protection of his daughter over to her groom. In many circles, the dance is a reflection of the relationship and an expression of love between the bride and her father.



On the flip side of the father-bride dance, a groom may ask his mother to dance. Again, this dance is a reflection of the bond and love a mother has for her son.

Fewer songs are written for the groom to dance with his mother than the number of songs available for a bride to dance with her father. We’ve found that there are quite a few songs that are appropriate for either dance. Click here to check out our post featuring a wide variety of song suggestions for parents' dances!

Monday, March 1, 2010

What Do Aprons and Hog Troughs Have to do With Weddings?

From Erik Michaels and June Hoffman of Megasound

Have you ever heard of the "Apron Dance" or the "Hog Trough Dance" at Weddings?


The Dollar Dance: Some traditions at weddings evolved to help with more modern issues. As we mentioned in our post about the honeymoon, when honeymoons originated, they had a different meaning and lasted a bit longer (typically a month) than today's honeymoons. As honeymoons evolved into more expensive "vacations", a new way to help the bride and groom pay for their honeymoon also evolved. The dollar dance is also called the "money dance" or "apron dance" and originated in Poland around 1900. It began in immigrant neighborhoods and was started to help brides and grooms with the costs of either their honeymoon or setting up their new life together.

Originally, the Best Man would begin dancing at the reception with the Bride and pinning money onto her dress or putting it into a purse or an apron which she wears over her dress specifically for this event (which is where the namesake came from). Nowadays, the Groom is also a part of the dance and rather than just men dancing with the Bride and women dancing with the Groom, more often than not; there are no particular rules. Even children join in for these modern festivities. Some Fort Wayne couples have even made the dollar dance into a challenge (to see who can collect more money) during the reception.

The Hog Trough Dance: Another interesting dance at receptions is called the "hog trough" dance. This tradition is much lesser known than the dollar dance, but is often done around the same time frame (in the reception) as the dollar dance. The “tradition” goes as follows: when a younger sibling gets married before an older sibling; the older sibling is supposed to get in the hog trough and dance. This is done to bless the younger sibling's wedding, as it was once believed to be bad luck for a younger sibling to marry before an older sibling.

While doing a bit of research, references were made to this tradition originating in Germany and being mainly a rural tradition. Some research turned up articles referring to this custom as a northern Baltic tradition, but there is a surprisingly small amount of information available today on this subject. Many of the previous meanings have been forgotten and today we simply enjoy the humor and camaraderie of the “hog trough” dance.

Regardless of what traditions you would like to make a part of YOUR wedding reception, rest assured that Megasound will work with you to customize your wedding just the way you want it! Call us TODAY to schedule your FREE consultation!

Thursday, February 4, 2010

"Let Them Eat Cake!" Part 1

From Erik Michaels and June Hoffman of Megasound  

Several wedding traditions over the centuries have evolved into something quite different from the original tradition. The wedding cake happens to be one of them, beginning with the breaking of a thin loaf of bread over the bride's head in Roman times. This was done at the end of the ceremony to symbolize fertility. This actually came from the fact that the wheat from which the bread was made signified fertility and, as such, the guests would eagerly pick up the bread crumbs as good luck charms.


As the Roman empire grew, so did this tradition, where it had spread to England by the Middle Ages. There, the tradition transformed to have the guests bring small cakes to the wedding and stack them together. It became traditional for the bride and groom to kiss over the stacked cakes, and later, a baker decided to make things easier by putting all the cakes together and spreading frosting over them. Thus, the modern "tiered" cake became the new sensation.

Be sure to read “Part 2” tomorrow. We will also share with you how the modern “tiered” wedding cake has morphed into many different versions.

Thursday, January 28, 2010

Is Toasting at a Wedding, Really About Bread?

From Erik Michaels and June Hoffman of Megasound

Toasting is a tradition which comes to us from the ancient French custom of placing bread in the bottom of a glass. Historically, a person who is good at toasting would drink all of the beverage to get to the "toast" at the bottom of the glass. Of course, today we propose toasts to all sorts of things; not just wedding couples. Toasts come with all sorts of legends, just like other traditions and rituals. One such legend has it that when a bride and groom drink their beverage for their toast, whoever finishes their drink first will rule the family.


While many people prefer to come up with their own original toast, there are prepared toasts which can also be used. A good practice for toasts is to focus on positive aspects although we have definitely heard our fair share of embarrassing stories over the years. Some of these stories can actually be quite hilarious; however, it is still a good idea to keep the stories in good taste.

We, at Megasound, have assisted many wedding party members and parents as well as brides and grooms with how to prepare and present wedding toasts. To learn more about our MC skills and how we help with fun and meaningful toasting, just give us a call at 260-484-2460. "Cheers to YOU!!"